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When parents separate or divorce, having a clear parenting plan can make a difficult situation more manageable. A parenting plan sets out how both parents will share responsibilities, spend time with the child, and communicate moving forward. In Florida, courts require this plan when a case involves minor children, and both parents are expected to follow it.
The right parenting plan can reduce conflict, prevent misunderstandings, and create a stable environment for your child. It’s not just about legal compliance—it’s about helping your family move forward with clarity and respect.
What the Law Requires
Under Fla. Stat. §61.13(2)(b), parenting plans must include certain core elements. Whether you’re building one from scratch or modifying an existing agreement, Florida law requires the following:
- A detailed time-sharing schedule
- A breakdown of how parents will share responsibilities for daily tasks
- A clear explanation of who makes decisions about education, health, and other major issues
- A method for each parent to communicate with the child
These elements help ensure that each parent understands their role and that the child’s best interests stay front and center.
Time-Sharing Schedules
One of the most important parts of a parenting plan is the time-sharing schedule. This section outlines when the child will be with each parent. While there’s no one-size-fits-all approach, some of the most common options include:
- Alternating weeks
- A 2-2-3 rotation (two days with one parent, two with the other, then three-day weekends alternating)
- Weekdays with one parent and weekends with the other
Plans should also account for:
- Holidays and school breaks
- Birthdays and special events
- Summer vacations
- Transportation responsibilities, including pick-up and drop-off times and locations
A good schedule reflects your child’s school calendar, extracurricular activities, and any special needs they may have.
Parental Responsibility and Major Decisions
In Florida, the term “custody” has been replaced with “parental responsibility” and “time-sharing.” Parental responsibility can be shared or awarded solely to one parent, depending on what the court believes is best for the child.
A parenting plan should outline how decisions will be made on matters such as:
- Education (school choice, tutoring, IEPs)
- Medical and dental care
- Religious involvement
- Participation in sports or other extracurricular activities
If parents are sharing responsibility, it’s helpful to include a process for resolving disagreements, such as consulting with a neutral third party or returning to mediation.
Communication and Information Sharing
Another key part of the plan is how parents will stay in touch regarding the child’s day-to-day life. Will you use email, text, or a parenting app? How often will you check in?
In addition, both parents should agree to share:
- Report cards and school updates
- Medical records and appointments
- Information about behavioral or emotional concerns
It’s also a good idea to set expectations for how and when the child can contact the other parent while they’re not together.
Travel, Relocation, and Special Considerations
If your family likes to travel, or if work demands frequent trips, it’s important to plan ahead. Your parenting plan can spell out how vacations will be handled, including:
- Notice requirements for trips
- How travel expenses will be divided
- Any rules around out-of-state or international travel
Relocating more than 50 miles from your current residence triggers additional legal steps. The parenting plan should address what happens if one parent wants or needs to move.
Tailoring the plan to your family’s unique situation helps it work better in practice.
Dispute Resolution and Modifications
Even with a thoughtful plan, disagreements can come up. Including a method for resolving disputes helps keep conflict from escalating. Some families agree to:
- Try mediation before returning to court
- Work with a parenting coordinator
- Put temporary agreements in writing and review them periodically
Parenting plans aren’t set in stone. If life changes, whether due to job relocation, remarriage, or the child’s evolving needs, you can request a modification. Florida law allows updates when there’s a substantial and lasting change in circumstances.
Frequently Asked Questions
Do I need a parenting plan if we agree on everything?
Yes. Even if you get along well, Florida courts require a written parenting plan for any case involving minor children.
Can we change the plan later?
Yes. If both parents agree, the court will usually approve the changes. If not, you’ll need to show that circumstances have changed.
What if the other parent doesn’t follow the plan?
Violations can be addressed through the court. We can help you understand your enforcement options.
Does the parenting plan have to go to court?
Yes. Even if it’s uncontested, the court must approve it to make it legally binding.
Let Us Help You Build the Right Plan
At Staples Law Group, P.A., we understand the importance of getting your parenting plan right from the start. We will work with you to build a plan that protects your child, respects your rights, and meets Florida’s legal standards. Contact us today to schedule a consultation and take the first step toward a more peaceful future for your family.